Saturday, March 14, 2009

Miss My famIly!

Dh dekat berapa bulan ni x balik...
smlm mak call..
sedeyh gler x dapat balik...
nk wt camne pegang position agak penting untuk trip...

last week..
mak call bg support 4 exam..
thankz mum & dad..

4 me..

i'll work very hard..
just have huge faith and sacrificing..
i'll work hard..
n get home with a degree

miss my lil sis..aisyah..
hope she done well in Kolej Mara Seremban
i'm very proud of you!!!

miss my mum..
asam pedas ikan tenggiri..
lol.. my favourite
miss massaging my mum foot

miss my dad
very much..
insya allah.. i'll take care of you

my 2 big bro..
dudes you have wives..
=) =)


"Ya Allah peliharalah keluargaku dari fitnah.. berikanlah kebahagiaan... berikanlah kami ketabahan agar dapat menempuh segala cabaran.. satukanlah hati kami sekeluarga"

Amin

Friday, March 13, 2009

Everything is learn..learn..learn




Dear friends...
when you are called students means
you are in stage of learning..
means you have to learn everything..

when we learn..
we need to more ask..
we need to be more considerable..
we need to thrash out the ego...


some part of my class..
i don't know (^~^)... they have barriers..
maybe because of women "typo"...
but is it.....

what are we learning?
eager to know everything..
passion of knowledge..

for me...
i'm still early 20's
i need more knowledge..
but i need to sharpen my basic..
quran.. lol..

but seriously..
if i have more time..
i spent it to recite quran..
learning back bout tajwid..
miss that time..
but i need to recite it everyday..

if I have iron-will heart..
i will do it everyday..

bout hospitality-tourism book?
read2... read2...
until i die..
bout others..
sometime learn bout finance.. economy stuff..
quite interesting...




but everything is about learn..
this life is about learn..
about money..
it is not barrier
it is the needs of life..
but knowledge is more important..

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Lidahku Melayu.. Bahasaku Melayu... Agamaku Islam



Semalam kali kedua ku join perhimpunan
first time bersih.. sekejap je..
semalam..perhimpunan ppsmi...

semalam jugaklah..
aku merasa apa yang di rasai oleh orang palestin..
disembur dengan air.. gas pemedih mata..
pedih woo...
batuk lagi...

PPSMI..
pengajian dan pembelajaran sains dan matematik inggeris.
time aku dahulu
belajar bahasa melayu..
sekarang nie inggeris..

kenapa aku menentang..
sebab lidahku melayu..
banyak orang melayu kat luar bandar tercicir..
sudahlah keprihatinan parents kurang.. pendapatan x seberapa..
goverment pulak buat policy ikut suka mak bapak die..
yang duduk kt bandar lagila...


bukan aku menentang bahasa inggeris..
tetapi sains dan matematik kena dalam bahasa yang mudah kita faham
konsep dan kaedah lebih penting
dari vocabulary inggeris..

yang aku marah sangat tuh..
sudahlah dh janji berhimpun secara aman..
langgar janji..
yang berhimpun ada budak2 umur 5 tahun...
semata-mata bahasa melayu punya pasal..

fikirlah sedikit polis nie..
tembak gas dalam masjid..

ANJING PUNYA POLIS.......




lalu sebelah a. samad said..
memang semangat masa tuh..
bahasa melayu...
bahasaku!!!!!!!!


Thursday, March 5, 2009

What Is a True Symbol of Friendship?

Friendship is a wonderful thing to have no matter how old you are. However, this is especially important for teens and young adults as friends provide conversation, support and so much more. If you are trying to forge a friendship with someone or are thinking about people whom you consider to be your friends, you may be wondering what symbolizes friendship. There are a few things to look for which truly symbolize a friendship relationship.





Easy Conversation

One of the true symbols of the relationship between friends is easy conversation. When you can get together and talk about almost anything, you are sure to be true friends. When the conversation simply flows easily from one topic to the next this can truly be a trait of friendship. Even friends who haven't seen each other for a long time may find that they jump right back into the same spot they left off and start chatting away. If you have an easy conversation with your friend this is a telltale sign of a wonderful friendship.
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Attentive Listening by Both Individuals

If you find that you listen closely to what your friend has to say and they do the same for you, this is another true symbol of friendship. As listening is often more important than even talking, you will find that true friends listen closely to each other and understand what the other person is saying.



Support 24/7

Teenagers who have support for their friends 24 hours a day, 7 days a week can also be said to be true friends. If your friend knows that they can call you anytime and you will be there for them, then this symbolizes friendship as well. Also, you should be able to call your friend at a moment's notice and know that they will be right there for you to give their support. Whether you are having trouble with a girlfriend or boyfriend or having a fight with your parents, true friendship means that you have the support of that friend all the time.




Sharing Laughter and Tears

Another true symbol of friendship is the ability to share both laughter and tears with your friends. A friend is someone with whom you can laugh and cry over whether it is something extremely important or not of much consequence. Laughing and crying with friends shows that a true friendship exists as you feel comfortable with this person enough to share your special feelings with them.



Able to Have Fun with Your Friend

Lastly, a true friend is someone you can have a great time with, all the time. No matter what you are doing you can have a fun experience so long as you are with your friend. This is one of the best parts of friendship; the ability to have fun together no matter what.

@Ujian Dari Allah

Hidup ini penuh dengan ujian. Memang perit dan pedih untuk menghadapinya. Tapi kita kena faham konsep "ujian" di dalam perspektif Islam. Kerana sekiranya kita tidak faham dengan jelas, kita akan cepat putus asa, kecewa dan lebih membahayakan apabila kita buruk sangka terhadap Allah SWT. Jadi, bagaimana ingin memujuk hati yang sedang berduka lara itu???

Pujuklah dengan berzikir dan mengingati Allah....dan bacalah Al Quran... sesungguhnya, banyaklah sudah isi-isi yang tersingkap di dalamnya...... segala jawapan ada di dalamnya....

Kenapa aku diuji?
Apakah manusia itu mengira bahawa mereka dibiarkan saja mengatakan; "Kami telah beriman," sedangkan mereka tidak diuji? Dan sesungguhnya kami telah menguji orang-orang yang sebelum mereka, maka sesungguhnya Allah mengetahui orang-orang yang benar dan sesungguhnya Dia mengetahui orang-orang yang dusta."
-Surah Al-Ankabut ayat 2-3

Apa yang aku dapat daripada semua ini?
Sesungguhnya Allah telah membeli dari orang-orang mukmin, diri, harta mereka dengan memberikan syurga untuk mereka....
-Surah At-Taubah ayat 111

Kepada siapa aku berharap?
Cukuplah Allah bagiku, tidak ada Tuhan selain dariNya.
Hanya kepadaNya aku bertawakkal. dicuri dari
-Surah At-Taubah ayat 129

Aku dah tak tahan lagi!!!!!!!
......dan janganlah kamu berputus asa dari rahmat Allah. Sesungguhnya tiada berputus asa dari rahmat Allah melainkan kaum yang kafir.
- Surah Yusuf ayat 12


Kenapa aku tak dapat apa yang aku idam-idamkan?
Boleh jadi mau membenci sesuatu padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi pula kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu, Allah mengetahui sedang kamu tidak mengetahui.
-Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 216

Kenapa ujian seberat ini?
Allah tidak membebani seseorang itu melainkan sesuai dengan kesanggupannya.
-Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 286

Rasa Frust?
Janganlah kamu bersikap lemah, dan janganlah pula kamu bersedih hati, padahal kamulah orang-orang yang paling tinggi darjatnya, jika kamu orang-orang yang beriman.
- Surah Al-Imran ayat 139

Bagaimana aku harus menghadapinya?
Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Bersabarlah kamu (menghadapi segala kesukaran dalam mengerjakan perkara-perkara yang berkebajikan), dan kuatkanlah kesabaran kamu lebih daripada kesabaran musuh, di medan perjuangan), dan bersedialah (dengan kekuatan pertahanan di daerah-daerah sempadan) serta bertaqwalah kamu kepada Allah supaya, kamu berjaya mencapai kemenangan).
- Surah Al-Imran ayat 200

"Dan mintalah pertolongan (kepada Allah) dengan jalan sabar dan mengerjakan sembahyang; dan sesungguhnya sembahyang itu amatlah berat kecuali kepada orang-orang yang khusyuk".
- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 45

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Do We Really Learn?

One of the professors in my university's economics department runs an informal book club; you don't get academic credit for showing up, but you do get the satisfaction of intellectual exploration from reading the book we're assigned and discussing it. I bring this up, because it affords me a segue into an interesting tidbit I overheard from a senior at the meeting this week — of all the education systems around the world, most have one purpose: they either exist to suppress heresy by propounding the truth, or they exist to encourage freedom of thought and freedom to explore intellectually.


Now, I think we all can guess which category our very own school system falls under. Students are told not to question. The very atmosphere of our schools stifles the notion that one must be free to explore.

But sometimes I wonder if criticisms of our school system aren't really a problem with the idea that we should teach the one truth. The constant debate about Chinese schools is I think a good example. There's no question that the Chinese schools outperform national schools academically. But the problem I have with our school system in general is that all our schools follow the philosophy of teaching one thing as true, with no room to question it or go beyond it.

If we made all our schools more like Chinese schools, we'd do a fantastic job of indoctrinating our children against heresy and the wrong ideas. But the problem with this is that what is wrong is always changing. The whole point of the scientific method is that we never really know the truth; we always just get a little closer to it. Any theory can always be disposed of if it does not reflect the facts we observe; no scientific theory is truly indispensable.

I believe this is why we don't see much real innovation and actual learning coming out of Malaysia. Ultimately the point of education is to learn; and ultimately once you have exhausted what your teachers know, you must learn for yourself from observing the world around you. In our schools, we do a great job learning from our teachers; we just don't learn how to really learn by ourselves.

So when our scientists are called upon to come up with something new, something that's never been observed before, they can't do it. We know very well how to learn from other people; we don't know how to learn for ourselves from the world around us. That is the problem with the dominant educational philosophy in our schools.

How do we fix this? There's no clear answer for that. But we need to stop going through the motions of education. Let's be honest, really — when we do experiments in school, we're really learning from the teachers, not the experiment. We're not actually observing what's going on in the world; we're observing what our teachers say and parroting their answers.

Knowing how to parrot is a useful skill; our Chinese schools often turn out great parrots, and they go on to do pretty good things. But ultimately nothing can really substitute for knowing how to learn things for yourself, from observing what actually happens and learning from it. We need to reorient the way we teach and the way we run our schools if we want that to happen.
posted by John Lee at 2/26/2009 04:01:00 PM